Sunday, February 11, 2024

A visit

 William visited for a little while today and he was at first a bit concerned about our lack of flooring and presence of kitchen appliances in the living room.  But in the end he really enjoyed all the open space to run and push his lawnmower! The kitchen is so roomy with no island or cabinets!





He has also discovered the pockets in his pants and it is soo cute!





Saturday, February 3, 2024

Adventures in Babysitting!

Today I babysat Dante and spent the majority of the time in my car because Baldr cannot relax in my presence and thinks I should spend all my time playing with him and NEVER show the baby any attention. Luckily Dante enjoyed the car and eventually took a nap in my arms. 

He is such a cute kid and I love his guts.




Sunday, January 7, 2024

2023 in Review

  

2023 in Review

My worst year ever for blogging. I may not remember a darn thing from 2023...

  1. What did you do in 2023 that you'd never done before?  Got new E-bikes and did a little (very little) biking. Actually did a single track mountain bike trail and pretty much hated that.  Frank wishes I would be more open to new experiences and he's not wrong.

  2. What would you like to have in 2024 that you lacked in 2023?  A little more self control (though I did better this year than in many past years), happy knees, more time with girl friends.

  3. What dates from 2023 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?  Dante  Roman Hill was born to Ryan and Kristal on May 5, 2023. I got to attend the birth which was exhausting and exhilarating and heartwarming and a bit scary too. haha So many emotions!  I gave it very little thought when I had my children...I knew I planned to have them and so I did. Now that I'm on the outside, I find the whole thing terrifying.
  4. What was your biggest achievement this year? I decided to be proactive about my health and got a bunch of testing done...all of which came back terrible! I was mad at even finding out but it did spur me to make some changes. One of the best ones is that I joined a local club where I lift weights with a trainer. It is expensive so not sure how long I can keep it up but it is helping me a lot.   My other big achievement is that I finally convinced (whined enough that he caved) Frank to get moving on the remodel of the kitchen and family room!
  5. What was your biggest failure? You mean learning opportunity?  Fell off the wagon for scripture study/inklings/church. Getting a headache whenever I go to church makes it really hard to feel motivated I will admit.  But I'm turning over a new leaf, again!
  6. Did you suffer illness or injury?  My knees were bothering me a lot so I started physical therapy. The weight lifting seems to be helping a lot also.  I got foot surgery on my right foot the day before Thanksgiving. I have been putting it off for years but the doctor said I had enough damage that I shouldn't put it off anymore. As of this moment I am still in the surgical shoe but get it off next week and then start physical therapy. A little nervous.
  7. What was the best thing you bought?  A designer to help me finally figure out a plan for the new fireplace. 
  8. Where did most of your money go? Helping kids, saving for remodel of fireplace.
  9. What did you get really, really, really excited about? New grand baby! Austin came to visit...twice! Finally doing the remodel on the house. Having the Michigan family here for Christmas this year!
  10. What song will always remind you of 2023? None. I can't even think of a song right now. I should probably listen to more music.
  11. Compared to this time last year, are you: Happier or sadder? Fatter or Thinner? Richer or Poorer? About the same, a bit thinner (thanks weight lifting!), richer at the moment but about to be poorer when I pay for the remodel stuff.

  12. What do you wish you'd done more of? Visiting Michigan, visiting girl friends, being happy for no reason

  13. What do you wish you'd done less of? Working...how else can I do all that traveling I say I want to do!  But also, I like being able to help kids and also save for stuff I want to do/have

  14. What was your favorite TV program? We do watch a show almost every night. Slow Horses was a favorite. Also Severence though that might have been last year, not sure.

  15. What was the best book you read? We found a new author that we like and I'm working my way though his books. His name is Michael J Sullivan and the first group of books was the Riyria Chronicles. So good.

  16. What did you want and get? Not done yet, but remodel is being planned and will happen! Foot surgery though I wasn't excited, I'll be glad if my foot is now pain free. I made a point of visiting Logan a fair amount so that William will know me. I always enjoy the day up there.

  17. What did you want and not get? a million dollars. just kidding.

  18. What was your favorite film of the year? I still love Spirited and watched it twice this year. Would have been more but I try not to annoy my family too much. I'm sure I saw other movies and I'm usually pretty easy to entertain but I can't remember anything right now.

  19. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I turned 56. Here is what I did.  It happened way back in January so I've always forgotten by the time I do this thing.

  20. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2023?  I'm continuing to try to buy clothes that are more authentically me but I fall back into the comfort zone of flannel shirts and t-shirts especially on my day off. I enjoy comfort too much to be truly fashionable. Obsessed with my kizik shoes.
  21. What kept you sane? naps, Marco Polo with Candice, Pickleball, walks

  22. Which celebrity did you fancy the most? I don't care about celebrities. 

  23. What political issue stirred you the most? too many terrible things going on. I have trouble even staying informed without it affecting my mental health.

  24. Who is the best new person you met? Dante Roman of course! He's mostly a stoic little thing except he really lights up for his mama and daddy. Until recently he was just fine with us babysitting occasionally but has entered the stranger danger phase and now pretty much hates us. I'll have to win him back of course.

  25. Who did you miss? girl friends, Michigan family (only got myself out there once this year!)

  26. Tell us a valuable lesson you learned in 2023. I feel remarkably better when I don't eat sugar or lots of carbs. Hard to stay on the wagon but much improved from past years! I still love YNAB and enjoy budgeting and feeling on top of things money-wise.
I think I'm supposed to include pictures but my computer is having issues doing that right now. I'll try to add some later!

Annual birthday post

Well, the Michigan folks came for Christmas and we also had Carter's family and Ryan's family here a lot over the break...and we got some new germs. I succumbed to the illness on the 3rd of January and by my birthday I was well and truly sick.

I called out sick to work on Thursday night and spent my birthday in bed/on the couch with tissues and cold medication.

Frank was willing to take me to lunch and/or dinner but I just wasn't up for it. I think he got us take out but I honestly can't remember..it's all a blur.

Frank gave me some new workout clothes which was nice. Ryan stopped by with a card and some mini cinnamon rolls. Austin and Branden both called. And I chatted by text with Carter but he was also sick. Amber sent me some gem art to do for when my house is torn apart and I need a distraction (they worked on one while there were here and it looks pretty fun!)

I was hoping to feel better the day after my birthday and we bought tickets to see the newest Hunger Games movie but I ended up cancelling that because I still felt horrible. We ended up renting it at home though so we still watched it. I had read the book so I knew it wasn't exactly uplifting but, yeah, downer movie when you're already feeling crappy. ha!

I hope and plan to go to lunch with my sisters this week or as soon as I feel better. I've already called out sick to work tomorrow (it's 1/7 as I write this) because I still feel horrid. The worst is that when I'm sick it sometimes triggers other things that make life even worse: cold sores (yep, got several) and the ice pick headaches (so far those have been off and on and not debilitating).

I also plan to make myself a cake at some point! Or make Frank do it. But that get's harder the further away from my birthday we get. I did tell him that I want a birthday do-over when I'm feeling better because this one sucked.

I have a tradition of taking a selfie on my birthday just for fun/show the passage of time. But man, I look bad. I took one but probably deleted it. If it's still there when I have energy to check, I'll upload it here.

I tried to smile  in the hopes it would improve the picture but alas. No makeup, cold sore, hair fresh from shower and not styled at all, feel like death. There you have it: 57!


Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Men are from Mars...

 I always make sugar cookies to give to neighbors each Christmas. Over the years I've done different designs but I've pretty much settled on wreaths on a round sugar cookie. It's pretty and also easy. 

Frank offered to help this year but, in true Frank fashion, it wasn't about making it beautiful or taking your time...it was about making it fast and easy. He set up as many cookies as would fit on a cookie sheet and began squeezing that icing as fast as possible. Not a beautiful wreath exactly but it gave the idea. Then he would sprinkle the jimmies on the whole pan (they don't stick well to icing that's dried out at all so that didn't work all that well).  

It made me laugh but he did get way more cookies done than I did in the same amount of time.

Can you tell whose cookies are whose?





Monday, August 28, 2023

The latest thing

Frank got it in his head that we needed E-bikes. E-mountain bikes to be precise. I keep hoping I'll get on my normal old road bike on occasion but that hasn't really happened so Frank isn't sure this is a good investment to get me another bike but he's trying to have faith.
He's ridden his a few times and we've gone out on the bike path near the house which I find perfectly enjoyable. 
I have no desire to actually mountain bike. Frank wishes I would have a more open mind about it.

Anyway, we took our bikes down to Manti and visited Daren, stayed in a cute little BnB, played pickleball and took the bikes on a trail that they like. 

Here's how it went down:
Daren and Frank in the front having a great time.
Berit, in  skinny jeans and having her phone in her hand a fair amount because it wouldn't stay in her pocket
Camille: on a bike that's too big for her
Me: in all the gear needed to have a successful bike ride. No phone in hand. Bike the right size.

I fell twice.
I was super stressed and got way behind and no one even heard me scream when I had my second and worse fall.

Everyone else had a great time. 

Clearly the trail isn't too hard if Berit can do it in skinny jeans and one hand on the handlebars and Camille can do it on a bike that's too big for her!  I have a mental block.

Anyway, I tried it! That' what matters, right?


My injuries


Everyone looking happy after the ride










These pictures are clearly not in order but you get the gist.

 

Tuesday, June 13, 2023

Michigan!

 I just returned from a short trip to Michigan.  I usually go from Thursday to Sunday, it's kind of my normal routine. It's easier for me to get just Friday off of work rather than trying to stay longer. We did stay longer at Christmas but when I go alone, it's usually just 4 days. If it is during the school year, this seems like a pretty decent visit but this visit was the first day of summer break for the girls and it just went by so fast! It really felt too short.

I always take the 6 am flight because it's the only flight that gets me there without wasting a whole day. Down side is that I am always so tired when I arrive, that I need a nap. When the girls are in school, it's works out perfect as I can nap right up until they get home. They were already home from their last day of school this time and I was worried that I wouldn't be much fun being so tired. Branden and Amber must have talked to them because they both commented that they knew I would need a nap and showed me my room right when I arrived. haha. Still, I needed it! So that was awesome.

I have always brought presents when I come and this was my first time not doing so. The girls are getting older and I really just don't know what they are into day to day so picking out a gift is really hard now. I figured I would take them to Target and let them buy something but there's always that moment of telling them I have no gifts in my suitcase. Well, again, sounded like Amber had tried to prepare them for this possibility because as I was bringing in my suitcase, Kaylee asked what I had in there. I replied, Just clothes this time. I was about to explain the plan and she said, "Well, the real gift you bring us is you! So really, you did bring us gifts!"  That was so sweet! (I did still take them to Target. haha)

Day 1-Flight went off without a hitch. I had a window seat and tried to sleep but that just never happens for me on airplanes. I got my rental car and drove the 1 hour to their house. I stopped for a burger king chicken sandwich for lunch...the line was SO LONG and incredibly slow and then the sandwich was really bad. I ate it anyway because I was so hungry but it was definitely subpar. No issues getting to the house. 

Showing me the wildflowers on the side of the hill

Once I arrived, I unpacked a bit and then napped :-). Isabelle had put a little poster up in my room welcoming me. I can't believe I forgot to get a picture! She also made me cards several times and left them on my bed. She's really creative and thoughtful!




Riley remembered me but was thinking I was the fun person who would play with her. I have played with her but the fun person is Frank...poor Riley. We all pitched in and helped Amber clean. I did dishes and Isabelle dried and put them away. The girls showed me their rooms and some of their favorite things. 


I've become pretty bad at taking pictures lately. Once Branden got home from work we went out for dinner to a nice restaurant nearby. After dinner, it was late enough the Isabelle was willing to wake up her hamster so we spent some time playing with it. It is a very cute and fluffy hamster and I have already forgotten its name!

We fed it a strawberry and a pea pod


Amber read to the girls (they are in the middle of a chapter book) and we had family prayer and scriptures before the girls went to bed. I watched a show with Branden and Amber and then I was off to bed. Totally exhausted from waking up at 3:15 despite my nap! I found another cute note from Isabelle on my bed. 




Day 2: Today was adventure day with grandma. We started with pancakes for breakfast, made by grandma.
We planned to see a movie and go to Target so we chose the theatre closest to Target...which is a 45 minute drive!
We went to see the Little Mermaid. It was very good and we all loved it!

We thought we might have the theatre to ourselves for awhile but other people eventually showed up. Super fun movie!
Then we went to McDonalds for lunch where I let them choose whatever they wanted to eat. They both chose a milkshake for their drink but after having some candy in the movie, neither of them finished it, stating that they had had too much sugar! I like that they can recognize when sugar is making them feel crappy and just stop!

Off to Target next! They had each brought some of their own money to spend. We also had the assignment to buy a set of hooks for the bathroom at home as well as a flotation vest for Kaylee since she has outgrown hers.


As the girls were examining the various toys, I announced my plan to add $10 to their spending limit. They were pretty excited about that since that meant much bigger items. 
Kaylee chose a fox stuffy pretty quickly but Isabelle had a harder time and wanted to look at the craft stuff. Kaylee and I were so tired! As Isabelle looked, we sat on the floor and tried to rest. haha!
Eventually Isabelle chose  a couple of crafty things but wanted one last look at the toys. She ended up with a couple of things including some cat hamsters (stuffed animals...yes cat hamsters). 
With both girls satisfied with their purchases, we trudged to the checkout.
The drive home was good and we listened to a kids entertainer that I found on youtube. We were trying to find a certain song but that never came on. The music was enjoyable though and I found myself singing along.
Once we got home, the girls played with their new items.
I napped. I know, why am I so tired!?!
We had chicken and rice for dinner and then played a new game that we all liked.
It might have been called Bears and Bees or maybe that's the nickname we gave it. ha! I can't remember.

Day 3: Lake Michigan!
It's my first time going to lake Michigan so that was fun. It isn't close: 2.5 hour drive! But Amber had all the food and towels and various things all ready to go and we got the car packed. We stopped by her parents house for some the shade tent and some flotation vests that we needed. While we were there, Daniel and Shannon decided last minute to come as well! They quickly packed and stuffed into the van with us. No issues with the drive. Branden and I were in the front and listened to an audiobook while all the folks in the back chatted and played travel games. Both Daniel and Shannon are super fun and full of energy!
The beach was beautiful and felt like being at the ocean! The water was super calm, which was nice. Apparently that isn't always the case but we basically had the perfect day! It is a bit of a hike from the parking lot to the water but we managed to get everyone and all the stuff down there.
The fun and energetic Daniel andShannon played for hours with isabelle and Kaylee! They played in the (frigid) water, they dug holes in the sand, they buried the girls in the sand and even ended up making a little picnic table out of sand where they ate their lunch. It was so fun!
I relaxed and read and chatted. I did venture into the water a bit but not much past my calves. It really was cold to me! I'm a wimp.




Funnest aunt and uncle award!! (funnest adults actually)



Branden and I chatting in the shade


When we'd had our fill of fun, we loaded up the van and headed home. Partway home we stopped for dinner at Olive Garden

It was a lot of driving for one day but totally worth it. Next time I think we should get an airbnb and stay over though. I wouldn't mind two days there!
Straight to bed when we got home..it was like 11 pm!
I actually fell asleep on my bed, still in my dress and swim suit. Luckily Branden woke me up so I could change or I would've slept all night in a swim suit!

Day 4:
Last day :-( It went so fast!
Branden made the girls waffles for breakfast, though they call them wuffles because they are the frozen kind and don't count as real waffles. haha
Amber had an early meeting so we met her at church. Church was nice with a talk from a recently returned missionary. I got a headache (surprise!) so I went outside and sat in the car with the door open during Relief Society. The weather was really beautiful for my whole visit.
We had lunch of deep dish pizza, played one last game of bears and bees and then it was time to head to the airport.

The girls said I should stay longer next time and BRING GRANDPA!

My final note: