Thursday, June 12, 2014

Road Trip!

I am in the process of planning the cross country road trip
that Carter and I will be taking when we move to Utah.


It's harder than I thought it would be.

I have to:
Decide how far I'm willing to drive each day
 Choose what hotel to stay in when I do stop 
Make reservations
Decide what sights I want to see
Figure out what sights are worth adding hours to my trip
Find out what relatives/friends live along the way that I can visit and/or mooch a night's sleep from

There are so many things that I want to see!
But I know that realistically I will get sick of driving and just want to get there

So I don't want to over-plan this thing.

Plus whenever I ask Carter if he wants to see a certain place
He always responds, "I don't care"

Helpful.

My dear hubby, just to add to the fun, keeps saying things like
"this will go in the car with you"
as he is packing boxes from the house.

Hello
I have a tiny car now.
But I think I'll be hauling all kinds of household crap.

Where am I gonna fit my 2400 miles worth of snacks??

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Selling stuff

Just like the last time we moved
(only 18 months ago?)
we are downsizing.

Which means we are selling and giving away a lot of things.

Selling things on craigslist is...
awesome
handy
helpful
and
a pain in the rear.

There's the whole "take a bunch of pictures" part
then write an ad
upload
field calls and or emails
or worry at the lack of calls and or emails
set up appointments
have them come or not show at all
sell your stuff
or
have them reject your stuff

I'm tired.

So lots of times I resort to just giving stuff away.
We do this a few ways here at the Hill house.

1. Savers-fairly easy.  Load up the car.  Drive 20-ish minutes to Savers and unload.
Done.  Helped people with Epilepsy (not exactly sure how but that's what the sign says).

2. Freecycle- similar to craigslist in that I have to take pictures, field emails with questions,  set up appointments and deal with no-shows.  Works great for bigger items that I can't load into the car.

3.  My church family- we have a yahoo group for our church congregation and I will sometimes post an email there saying I have these free things...who wants them?  I almost always find a home for things.  It's getting them to their new home that's the problem.  Some things I take to church and have the person get it from me.  Sometimes people come here.  But either way it all has to be worked out.

It's a lot of work to give away your stuff!

I recently came across a platter that is quite lovely
but we just don't use it.
Like never.
I see it in the cupboard and always choose something else.
It has no edges so stuff can just fall off the sides.
It's pretty and I'm afraid to break it.
I don't want it anymore.

It wasn't quite worth a trip to Savers by itself
and I didn't want to keep it around until I had a carload.
Once I make these decisions, it's just best to act immediately.
So I went to a little shop nearby that sells things on consignment.
I've bought things there before...
it's a cute little shop.

I walked in and handed her the lovely platter and said
"can I give this to you?"
She was a little confused, since she isn't a thrift store.
So she asked me if I wanted to open an account.
Nope.
Just want to give you a lovely platter that you can sell for whatever you want.

In the end, she took it and thanked me for thinking of her.

And I drove the 2 miles back to my house with a smile and a sigh of relief.

One less thing to pack.

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Today

Two exciting things today:

First, its Ryan's Birthday!


Happy Birthday to Ryan!
He's living far away in Utah so I hope he had a good day.
But I don't really know.

We tried to call, several times actually.
But either his phone stinks or ours do.
Because we never managed a full conversation.

Next year we will hopefully live in the same state and I can bake him a cake.

The second exciting thing is:

Carter got his driver's permit today!

We went yesterday to take the test
but arrived too late
apparently no tests are allowed after 4 PM since they close at 5
We got to the front of the line at 3:58
and were turned away!
rip off

We were both disappointed.

But today, we did the smart thing
and skipped some school
to be sure we'd arrive in plenty of time.
haaaa!

But seriously, he passed the test no problem
which doesn't help with the whole
"you really should study"
thing I keep trying to tell him.


But anyway
CONGRATULATIONS CARTER!

In other Carter news:

We have spent a lot of time in the last week
sorting Legos
He's got 4 kids worth of Legos
that we don't really want to move...
So, we're sorting and finding pieces to sets that he wants to take.
And he occasionally talks about how we really should just move them all.

He has trouble letting go of things...


As proof of that,
here we have Luigi


Yes, I took pictures of Luigi so that I could throw him away finally
But when Carter took out the trash
he saw him in there
and brought him back in the house!

He said, "He's a childhood memory! You have to keep him forever"

And so he's sitting on my kitchen counter
(yes, after being in the trash can)
until I can sneak him to the trash when Carter isn't looking.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Happy Anniversary!

Today is my 26th Anniversary!


To honor this occasion, I will make a confession.

I was a bridezilla.

The entire week before my wedding I was so stressed out
and controlling
and mean
that my best friends and bridesmaids threatened to leave
my mother cried
and my sisters avoided me.
My fiancĂ© finally offered to take me away for a day 
(to Disneyland)
and my mother said
"Please, Yes, take her away!"

I did not want to go.
I was so annoyed.
I needed to be there to oversee things and make sure they were PERFECT.

(We went. We had fun.  It was probably a very good idea to remove me from the scene)

The morning of the wedding
I was in a foul foul mood.
I snapped at people
I wanted to kill people who were trying to help me
and I threw a couple of hissy fits.

My mother finally grabbed me by the arm
shoved me into a little cubby area
and told me to shape up.
"This is supposed to be the happiest day of your life!"
She practically spat it at me.

I had to go into my head and literally say those words over and over
so that I could stop being nasty.

This is the happiest day of my life
Be happy
This is the happiest day of my life
Be happy

And then...
we were married.

And suddenly I was just calm and relaxed and happy as a lark.

All the details that I was worried about regarding the reception...
I didn't care.

My sister approached me with fear in her face to tell me that she thought some of the flowers were wrong.
And I said,"That's ok. These look pretty"
She almost keeled over in shock.

I wish I could do it over and be the relaxed and happy bride that I should have been.
But I can't.

Thankfully I married a guy who knows me well enough to know when to take me out of the situation.


And 26 years later we are still going strong.


And I'm a calmer person...
though I do occasionally still get all stressed out and take it out on those I love the most.
He takes it all in stride.


I try to tell myself

This is the happiest day of my life

I'm happy.


(I had planned to put wedding photos in here but I already packed the hard drive that they are on!)
And look at me being all calm about it...

A song stuck in my head

Carter has been listening to classical music lately.
As we were talking about it, I was reminded of some tapes that we used to listen to in the car when he was little.
One side had the classical music played by an orchestra
and the other side had the same music but with kid friendly lyrics being sung to the classical music.
The idea was to introduce classical music in a fun way for small children.

We all loved these tapes and listened to them often.

Carter couldn't quite remember them but he has that sort of fuzzy memory of them
that you get when you do something when you are really small.

But I had a favorite one.

We sang it all the time!
We played it over and over and over trying to sing all the words just right.

And as I was talking to Carter I couldn't quite pull those lyrics up into my brain.

I started googling.
Nothing.
I couldn't remember the exact name of the tapes so I was just googling
"kid friendly classical music"
"classical music with lyrics"
and even a few of the lyrics I actually remembered.
There are some things out there, but none of them were my tapes.

I went to bed last night and apparently in my sleep, my brain was working on this problem.

I woke up at about 1:30 with the words and music running through my head.
Not all of it, but a good portion.
I tried to sleep but couldn't.
The dang song was just running on repeat through my head!

So I got up and started writing it down.

I slept again.

I woke with more words.

I wrote them down.

By morning, I had remembered the entire song!
A few words might be wrong here or there
but I definitely have the gist of the song.

I still don't remember the name of the song
but it is sung to the tune of 
Johann Strauss' Radetzky-Marsch

I present to you
The Lyrics:
(feel free to sing along using the attached Youtube video)
Don't start singing until after the intro

Here's a tale I will tell if you listen well
of a boat thats afloat on a castle moat
and upon that boat
was a billy goat
in a grey overcoat

Did I mention
that the goat in the boat had a one page note
In the coat was a note that his mother wrote
and upon that note
she wrote
all the following that I will quote

What I bring to the king is a diamond ring
and the ring that I bring is for marrying
My son to your daughter
crossed over the water, long we have sought her
your lovely daughter
Oh king take this ring that we gladly bring
and all of the people will dance and they'll shout and they'll sing!

The King heard the goat in the overcoat
on a boat that's afloat in the castle moat
and the king cleared his throat...
...and he said...
 I'm afraid I must say that the goat can't stay
Then the king told the goat he must sail away
And the reason why
He did...
Little Billy Goat was just a KID!

Now you've heard every word
and my tales complete
every word that you heard
you must now repeat.
Hope you listened through, 'cause it's up to you
Do the very best that you can do!

The lyrics fit the first minute or so of the song
And I know there is something missing in the part about the King.

I guess I better sleep on it!



I had a fun time singing this with my kids all those years ago!

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Where I randomly complain

Packing is not a fun thing.
I need to get things packed up!
But we are still using our stuff.
If I wait until we are about to move then I'll have too much to do with too little time.
What a conundrum.
_____

I am having a lot of trouble with pain.
joints
muscles
head
It's doing me in.
I had high hopes for a positive Lyme test
(yes, you read that right)
but nope.
Negative.
So why am I in pain?
_____

I still have a kidney stone just waiting to come out and hurt me.
I'm scared of it.
_____

My recently purchased fat jeans don't fit anymore.
What?
You'd think this would be enough to entice me to go to the gym
or stop eating
But, when I wake up in pain, all plans go out the window.

It's a lose/lose situation.
or gain...whatever.
You know what I mean.
_____

I'm starting the whole "posting things to craigslist" thing.
blerg
_____

I bought a dryer for my new house and the door opens sideways rather than up and down.
I really like that little table the door forms when it opens down...
easier to load the dryer.
That's what I get for buying online and long distance.
_____

I recently had my memory tested.
The results are:
I have a bad memory!
Wait, I knew that.
_____

Funny story (not really a complaint):

We had the Apple Blossom festival this weekend.  
Carter marched with the band as usual.  
I really wanted to get a picture since it will be his last one before we move so I got there early, camera in hand and was watching carefully.... and never saw him!  
How do I miss my own kid playing the drums?  
So I actually ran ahead and tried to look for him again.  
Nope.  
I went to the end of the parade and as they came around the corner, there he is with his drums.  
I could not figure out how I missed him.
He told me he was watching me run around and look for him and wondering why I was such a goof. 
(I don't think he used the word goof but I can't remember his actual word...
see previous item re: memory)
Then after more questioning he admitted that he switched with someone and was actually walking backwards in front of the drum line when I was looking for him. Not playing a drum! 
Ha! 
I’m not going crazy.  
And it turns out I got a picture of him, accidentally!  
There he is walking backwards. 
(He's the backwards one on the left of the picture) 
You can barely tell its him but I take what I can get.

_____

I am the QUEEN of little notebooks.
As I open drawers and pack random things I am finding little notebooks everywhere.
filled with lists, random thoughts, plans, goals, journal entries, diet logs
you name it, I have written it in a tiny notebook and then promptly put it in a drawer and forgotten about it.

_____

Ok I'm done.
for now

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Favorite moment of the week

Carter and Frank are loading the dishwasher.
Carter grabs some things that frank has already put in and puts them in a different spot.
Frank is like "what are you doing?"
Carter says, "mom likes them in a certain way. She says it keeps the glasses from breaking or something."
Yay!

Why did that make me so happy?
Hahahaha